๐๐ป ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ธ ๐๐ฎ๐๐, ๐๐’๐ ๐ง๐ถ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ง๐ผ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ป ๐ฎ ๐น๐ผ๐ ๐๐ป๐ฑ ๐ ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ
There’s an African say...“a real friend is that, that would strongly stay with you on your dark days, with an open arms, lifting you up whenever you tryna fall since loosing your loved one is weakened you.”
Before we proceed, as I mentioned earlier on that...“on your dark days, it’s time to learn a lot and more.”...yes, one mourns as he/she learns on the other hand, so, what have you learn from @๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ถ’๐ SITUATION..?
1. ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ต
Sometimes before you speaks out, first thing that you should think about is...”Does the situation you are, the audience you’re addressing and the things you should open up about, matches?, if they don’t really do, why would you embarrass your fellow heartfelt mourners, yes why would you?
Some individual’s speeches weren’t so good on the late’s viewing at the SSCC, you don’t need to blame or finger point someone in trying moments, it hurt people’s health. Someone who mourns or stands with you in trying moments deserves a thank you credit not an embarrassment, we should adjust this next time. At least organize a concert, a meeting or stuff then maybe open up about your challenges and why are you being undermined blah blah...
2. ๐๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ-๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐บ
Self-respect and confidence are one of a few things we shouldn’t ever breaks. To lower your self-respect for someone who’s not even worth a penny is really disgusting for you, it’s dull. Why look up, complains and stuffs up about/to someone who doesn’t see or feel your heartbreak? With your self-esteem you can overcome any circumstances in your lives ya Junubin, your self-esteems matters. Now, you were lowering yourselves just to drop a bias complaint[s] to someone who doesn’t even recognizes you the way you do them
3. ๐๐๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐
Hypocrisy is simply defines as ”the contrivance of a false appearance of virtue or goodness, while concealing real character or inclinations, especially with respect to religious and moral beliefs; hence in general sense, dissimulation, pretence, sham.”
In this sense, who are the hypocrites? of course, yes, the pretenders, the self-proclaims, the liars and the fake friends. Hypocrisy isn’t been an exception in what we’ve learn from late’s situation. Talking about the neighbood’s condolences concerns as some earlier talked about, you know we in a cold world...so you don’t need to complain to someone who didn’t, don’t or doesn’t see any importance in standing with you at whatever circumstances, you just don’t need to.
4. ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐น๐ถ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐๐ฎ๐น๐’
As I said, you don’t need to lower yourself for someone who’s not worth a penny, we shouldn’t lower ourselves for any shit[s] next time, regardless the circumstances are gonna be, whatever..!
Replying to @๐น๐ฎ๐ฑ๐๐ธ๐ผ๐น๐ฎ’๐ concern, “as per now we are still mourning our brother we can’t allow any music concert till further notice.” yes, here I’m backing @kola.
But about some other negative concerns, like some individuals warning foreign artistes[neighbors] that they should never step into this soil, failure to do so, they gonna stone them to death, no, it doesn’t work that way, we don’t need to warn no one, it’s always a business that brings them here, if we don’t wanna work with them no more then we gotta dumb them lowkey, not death threats and stuffs, this is nonsensical, it’s not wise of someone to mention this.
5. ๐ง๐ผ๐๐ฎ๐น ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐๐ฏ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ธ
About the late’s passed on and other things we’ve learn as an industry, a team and a family, the heartbreak is hurting, it is..! but we need to come back stronger and push together as a whole, we understand it affects the ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฑ๐น๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ the most but we need to stick together as a team and get back stronger.
๐ฅ๐ฒ๐๐ ๐๐ป ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ, ๐๐ฒ๐ด๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ถ